And just like that, Phil and I are the proud parents of a one-year-old! The first time I held Naiya exactly one year ago last night (#imnotcryingyourecrying), my nurse handed her over to me and told me to savor the moment because I’d blink and the next year would fly by. While I assumed that time would go quickly, in the insanely sleep-deprived, over-the-top stressful first few weeks of Naiya’s life, I never could have imagined just how quickly. When she was first born, I often wanted to speed up time so that we could find our new normal. Now here we are, exactly one year later (at 11:40pm last night!) and I only wish we could go back to that first moment with Naiya to do it all over again.
This was my first mommy-daughter weekend entirely on my own since Naiya was born. Phil was out of town on a business trip and it was the first time we didn’t plan for family or friends to come and help us out. Let’s face it: 8-months in, it was time for me to bite the bullet! I’m lucky I made it this far. That said, I was completely anxious that I wouldn’t be able to juggle it all without Phil.
Have you ever thought about what success means to you? Have you ever really taken the time to break it down? My husband was one of the first people to ask me these questions. I’ll never forget sitting on one of our first dates at a complete loss for words, unable to articulate my answer or even wrap my head around it. I realized in that moment that I couldn’t fully define success and it make me totally uncomfortable. I had been chasing the word “success” since I could remember but I realized that I had never fully honed in on whether it included attaining a certain dream, hitting a particular salary, etc. While success is still an ever-changing definition for me, now that I’m a mom, I want to open up about how it’s shaping my daily life. In addition to today’s outfit post, I’m rounding up some tips in terms of how to reshape your view of success too (especially if you’re a perfectionist like me).